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I’m Michelle Dorothy Riksman, a lover of love, life, gardens, and duster of fly screens (for two hairy men). Born in New South Wales, Australia, in the 1970s, my mother wrote in my baby book: "Michelle held her head up since birth!" Hey, I’m a doer! For someone who once thought planting a hydrangea in arid dirt and scorching sun was a good idea, I’ve learned a little. Plants are fast teachers, but I didn’t start gardening in earnest until I found home. Decades later, I can’t imagine life without foliage, and lots of it. Gardening is a gentle to moderate form of exercise that leaves me energised and inspired. Even pulling weeds is satisfying, as is plucking spent leaves from shrubs high and low. A healthy, growing garden enhances wellbeing. Physical, spiritual, mental, emotional health — all bases are covered. Gardening is a lifestyle. Being around plants, in all their pizazz, is a remarkable human calibrator.
Purpose, patience, pleasure, and presence of mind are just some of my garden's rewards. As a creative on the autism spectrum, letting go and being silent appeals to me. Feeling the gentle air, swaying on and off my skin, balmy or nippy, is refreshing. Smelling plant oils, their earthiness or sweetness, is rejuvenating. Hearing shrubs moving wildly, steadily, ever-changing, is stirring. Listening to birds trilling and insects buzzing is relaxing. Seeing water reflections, petal edges, veiny leaves, hairy buds, even watching ants at work or earthworms wriggle and twitch, making the soil rich, gratifies. Life is teeming beside me, under me, around me, above me, awakening all my senses. I notice more when I'm still, with nature at my knees. Being outdoors in this warm-temperate area of Australia also helps me reflect, gain insights, and find clarity. Many decisions have surfaced while I've been playing in the dirt. Misfortunes have transpired, too. Every gardener knows about Plan B. More understanding and appreciation come from trial and error. Renewing can be fun; it means more dreaming in the garden. Gardening is more than just a hobby. It’s versatile in its benefits.
Gardening is a major motivator, mood stabiliser, and even healer for grief.

The garden lent a hand when my mother died. I found solace in the earth and learned a lot about myself, so much so that I have been moved to write about my experiences. Find inner riches – an autistic woman’s story of love & motherloss here.
As gardening is a lifelong experiment from which one reaps the rewards, it follows that I'm happiest when involved in a planting project. I'm like a dog with two tails!




Need a Boost? Try turning over some soil.

William

Sidney

"Clear view through these flyscreens, Bro."
"Did she miss a bit?"



I wonder what plant I'd be. Let's see. Well, traipsing down the heat-tolerant root won't suit; pansies don't fold in the cold, and camellias, I stress, leave a mess (albeit a beautiful one). A climber? Yeah, nah. I'm a finely tuned instrument, so I’d require specific conditions to prosper. That means I'd be a, hmmm........I ponder. Ah, a hydrangea.

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Peace & tea trees,
Michelle.
Nurture &
Be Nurtured:
Keep On
Gardening
Is Dedicated to
"No."
"You're right."
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